Sydney Williams encourages readers to take a hike and explains what can be gained from getting outside and experiencing nature… and it’s not all sore feet and blisters….
GET OUTSIDE
Throughout this article, I’m going to be encouraging you to go for a hike, and I want to be clear here: Please don’t think you have to take off on a grand hiking adventure like I did. If you don’t have access to hiking trails or if you’re just starting out and aren’t ready for a big hike yet, it can be as simple as walking around your neighborhood and building from there. Maybe you have a different activity of choice, like rock climbing, running, kayaking, fishing, gardening, riding your bike, or paddleboarding. Perhaps you’re where I was back in 2016, ass firmly planted on the couch but knowing you’re ready to take the next step.
The main thing is to move your body, somewhere outdoors, free from the distractions of this hyperconnected world we’re living in. At the very least, leave your headphones at home, save your favorite podcast for another day, and tuck your phone into your pocket or backpack. By removing the points of connection to technology and the expectations of the society we live in, we can more clearly hear our inner voice and pay attention to the signals our bodies give us.
HIKE YOUR OWN HIKE
“Hike your own hike” serves as a reminder to honor your process. We all start somewhere, and if you’re brand new to this like I was before my first trek on the TCT, I invite you to take an analytical approach to your first few hikes. Pretend you’re a scientist, and each hike is an experiment. We’re just out here collecting data so we can make more informed choices in the future. This is helpful for everything, including trying out new gear, exploring new trails, and hiking with others. If you try on a pair of shoes and they’re uncomfortable, exchange them for the proper size. If you’re attempting a new (to you) trail and you find yourself running out of energy faster than you thought, make a note of the distance that was comfortable for you and dial back the mileage on your next hike. If you’re hiking with a group and find yourself pulling up the rear, back of the bus, last in line, resist the temptation to feel like you’re less than the faster hikers and revel in what your body is capable of.
On and off the trail, comparison is the thief of joy, and we can have a much more pleasant experience if we allow ourselves to move at our own pace, in our own way.
WELCOME TO YOUR TRAIL OF LIFE
If you haven’t discovered this already, one of the things you’ll quickly learn is that hiking is a lot like life. There are ups and downs, twists and turns, moments of absolute bliss and beauty, and many moments of struggle. You can start to connect the dots between what happens on the hike and what is happening in life. Reflecting on how the lessons learned along the way help you to blaze your own trail to self-love. They say hindsight is twenty-twenty, and we can only connect the dots backward, so we use the Trail of Life to understand where we came from, how we got to where we are today, and how we want to integrate our experiences in the future. In my time facilitating healing journeys in nature for folks from all walks of life, one thing has become clear: When you know where you’ve been, it’s much easier to move forward with an open heart.
UNPACK YOUR TRAUMA PACK
We each carry an invisible backpack full of our experiences on this Trail of Life. I lovingly call this my trauma pack, and for the first three decades of my life, I had no idea I was carrying all of this extra weight. In fact, it wasn’t until I started backpacking in 2016 that I was able to slow down enough to tune in to my inner wilderness. As a result, I was able to feel the weight of everything I’d been avoiding. It was heavy.
We’re all walking around with our own traumas—and they can be triggered by many different things. There are activities and rituals that helped me unpack its contents and tools I used to lighten my load. Some of the items in my trauma pack are toxic relationships, body image issues, verbal and emotional abuse, suicide, cancer, sudden death, chronic illness, and sexual assault, to name a few.
The items in our trauma packs may be different, the weight of what you’ve been carrying hasn’t crushed you yet. No matter how heavy the load has been, I invite you to take off your trauma pack. Feel the burden lift from your shoulders. Roll out your neck. Unclench your jaw. Take a few deep breaths. Settle into a space that feels cozy and safe. You’ve made it this far. You can do this too.
WHAT YOU’LL NEED
Before any adventure, it’s good to do a gear check. There are countless websites, books, courses, and other resources that can point you in the right direction. In the world of hiking and backpacking, they’re all going to say approximately the same thing. You’ll need a backpack to carry everything for your journey: shelter, water (and/or a way to treat freshwater), food (and a way to prepare it), a sleep system, and the right clothing and footwear.
Noticeably missing from these packing lists and gear reviews are the skills you already possess that are critical for your enjoyment and success. You won’t find these items in the store but rather in your mind, body, and spirit:
Curiosity: When embarking on any new endeavor, self-judgment can run rampant if it remains unchecked. The antidote to judgment is curiosity. When things get hard, and your inner critic starts barking orders and insults, take a few deep breaths and ask, “What does Little Me need right now?” When judgment rears its ugly head, tap into the curiosity that came easily as a child and watch your entire world transform.
Self-Trust: As you embark on this journey, I encourage you to trust yourself above all else, even if you’ve never felt safe doing so. Trust the messages your body sends you when it hurts.
Trust your instincts if something on the trail or in your life sets off alarm bells. Trust your inner knowing about what is right for you at every moment. One way to practice this on the trail is to listen to your body when you feel like you need to use the restroom. When you gotta go, you gotta go, and finding a way to relieve yourself instead of holding it is one
of the quickest ways to reestablish the trust you have in not only your body’s signals but also your brain’s capacity to take action.
Patience: This process isn’t pretty. You’re going to make mistakes, say things you don’t mean, and probably lose some relationships along the way. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve wished to go back to my preheating days, blissfully ignorant of my pain and how it was impacting every facet of my life. You can’t rush through this. You can’t heal
everything all at once, nor should you try. Settle in, double up on your patience, and commit to the journey. You’re worth it.
MINDFUL MILES
The Mindful Miles —start connecting the dots on your own Trail of Life, and they can turn any activity into an opportunity for self-discovery, personal growth, and healing. When our brains get squirrelly on a seated meditation, we return to the breath. We utilize these prompts in the same way to ground ourselves on the trail. If you’re out on a hike and you find yourself getting distracted by the physical sensations you’re experiencing or the thoughts that come up, simply return to the prompts to refocus your attention. If you find your mind frequently wandering or fixating on one thing, make note of any thoughts or sensations in your body. If your brain is busy like mine, flitting from thought to thought like a hummingbird, paying attention to every single one can feel exhausting, but stick with it.
Using Mindful Miles as a grounding practice for your hike will help you identify a couple of things:
– If you’re able to focus on the question, then you’ll learn something about yourself.
– If you get distracted, making a note of which thought comes up is another data point to consider. If this repeats itself, you’ll have a record of it and can use this as an opportunity to dig deeper and ask yourself why it’s coming up.
